By: Rhandi Wallace ~Guest Writer~ I have a friend who recently started dating. He had been pursuing this girl for a while, and when she finally agreed to be his girlfriend, he was extremely excited. I wanted to share the joy with him, but something about the way he presented the information really struck a chord with me. He said to me: “Hey Rhandi, I’m not single anymore!” While this wouldn’t normally be looked at as problematic, part of me was insulted. I’m single. I have been for a while, and it doesn’t look like anything will be cooking up … Continue reading Can we focus on self goals instead?